I would firstly like to say that a lot of my material I use for study comes from Practical Mindfulness: A Step-By-Step Guide (Ken A.Cerni, Dorking Kindersley 2015). it’s such a vast, detailed yet easy-to-read book that I have made it the focus of my studies. it will take a while to get through but it’s important that I take my time. I have purchased a few other books to read at a more leisurely pace but this is the main one for me.
This afternoon I have been (whilst looking after the children so go me!) looking at the role of Mindfulness and realising one’s potential, living life as fully and a contentedly as circumstances allow. To me it’s not in itself about being wistful and planning on making massive changes, it’s about living and growing in a way that’s manageable and realistic to now.
The idea is to focus on an authentic reality of my present experience, and detach myself from others’ opinions – a massive thing for me. So stop wishing, fantasising and focising on what I want/haven’t got.
Be aware of artificial cues for failure or success!
Positive and negative events, e.g. good results vs bad results, can influence our attitudes and expectations. E.g. recently I didn’t do as well as expected in an assessment. This doesn’t make me bad at what I do, it is a result I got along with information on how to improve.
Our inner dialogue can influence whether we build barriers that prevent us from realising our potential. “Can I see myself…?” is one of the most limiting thoughts we have as we often see ourselves askew.
On my phone, and pictures above, I have typed a list of self-realisation statements to look at frequently and remind myself that I am ME, and not the sum of what others think of me, to remind myself to live in the moment and accept what happens without frustration.
As I mentioned earlier, although I follow a main text for my studies here are the books I purchased today. I’m definitely into my overdraft but I felt it was important to buy them, enjoy them and learn from them.
Last but not least, my daily fitness challenge targets have been hit! Which is good because I have put on half a stone in a week. My food intake has just become ridiculous, so I really need to rein myself in.
Jumping Jacks – 170
Squats – 130
Push-ups – 9
Crunches – 75 (was meant to be 70 but I forgot so did more)
Plank – rest
Wall Sit – 2 minutes
This is only day 12. I’m not even officially half way through yet and it’s only going to get harder! Again, with the stupid food attitude, I was having an Amaretti biscuit between exercises. Stupid. Then had popcorn and chocolate whilst watching “Call the Midwife”. You’ve probably noticed the flow and style of this blog seems to change a lot – that’s because I’m still finding my own style and I make plans and change them. I want it to be my own diary as much as sharing info on my mental health development. Thank you for sharing it with me.